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Michael Tannery's avatar

Once of your best life pieces. Thank you

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Yale Bock's avatar

These are the kind of pieces which one appreciates the wisdom of as each year goes by. Well said Jared- best from Vegas

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The Curious LP's avatar

As someone with (I would say) low-grade, but not debilitating, social anxiety, this piece hit hard. Saying yes more is something I’ve gotten better at over time, but am still working on. But I wish I’d done it more.

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Dan Allen's avatar

Wilfred's Head Of Security character, when told not to worry.

"I get paid to worry about things I'm not supposed to worry about."

A great line, Oatmeal Man.

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Brian Higgs's avatar

Great writing Jared!

Didn't somebody say "When you are near death you regret what you didn't do in your life not what you did." (Unless I completely botched it.) So your advice is great.

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Eric Knight's avatar

Correct: Mark Twain wrote “20 years from now you’ll be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did.”

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Sarah Horowitz's avatar

Brilliant post. Helpful, too.

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Jonathan Roth's avatar

16 years after I decided not to kiss the girl of my dreams who had landed square in my lap at 18, I ended up having an affair with her. Let's just say that missed kiss led directly to the biggest mistake of my life.

So, should I have kissed her years back?

Luckily, I patched things up with my wife.

Onwards and upwards.

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SHC's avatar

Miss your writing. Thanks for the read!

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